lost and desperate

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Ss,

It's stress, sweetie. I lost 20 pounds in 3 months just because I could not eat. I also could not stay focused on much. Everything seemed so "fuzzy."

Have patience with yourself.

My dad died suddenly, at age 50, in a tragic accident in 2006. I suffered through THAT better than I suffered through my family being destroyed by an affair. This is some serious business. Many people show symptoms of PTSD. Because being abandoned, for ANY reason, IS traumatic and stressful, no doubt about it.

Take care of you, and have patience with you.

You have support here, and we've alllllll been in the same place.

Have a bubble bath and a glass of wine. Read a book that takes you away from all this mess. Watch a funny movie. Or a sad one. And cry, cry, cry until your eyes are swollen shut.

You're finding Ss every, single day, even though you don't feel like it. You'll get your groove back. I promise.