I'm getting together with her next Thursday before I leave the country. This work and small positive interactions I can feel do have a positive affect on her as long as I stick to my values and boundaries. Problem is that is also has an affect on me which makes me wanting more. Detaching is easier sometimes, but harder sometimes. It's just hard to know what to do, trying to figure things out as I go.


Me 31 Her 30
M 5.5 T 11
0 Kids
Bomb drop: 4/13, EA+PA: 12/13
Separated: 12/13, 3rd chance of counseling:7/14