Sorry to find you here. This is a great community of people who are in crappy situations with their spouses going off in the wild. However, you'll get tons of support as you walk through your journey.
First things first.
We need details on your sitch so we know things a bit more clearer and are able to help you better.
-How old are you and H? -How long together and married? -Do you have kids? How old are they? -Do you own a house together? -Do the pair of you work? -When did the BD (Bomb Day) happen?
I would advise you to visit other threads that resonates with you and post there. This way, you'll get more traffic back to your thread. Most DBers post frequently in certain threads and they become "cyber-friends" that way here.
