Thank you TL. I really don't want to talk with him while I'm angry. I'm still very fired up, but I believe I truly did already know. That note was just confirming what I suspected.
So last night I watched a movie and ignored all electronics...9 texts and 2 messages on iPad.
This morning a just made a quick response of sorry was asleep.
Today...3 emails, 4 messages on iPad, and 2 texts...all while I was at work.
I finally emailed back at 3 just to acknowledge him, and received another email and a phone call since I didn't respond. He then called again once I was home. It's all little stupid stuff, but man is he persistent!
I think this is me pulling him close, not sure, but I will continue to be minimal contact and see how this goes for the next week. Don't stop what's working!
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile