I should clarify. I don't enjoy analyzing people behind their backs any longer...except Smokey...still get stuck there sometimes in an effort to sort out this whole grief thing...but, I'm not into sitting around making myself feel better by putting someone else down. I'm learning to believe that people have good intentions most of the time and they do the things they do because of the experiences they have encountered in life. I trust my sister has good reasons for feeling the way she does...however, I do not have to put myself in harm's way if it doesn't feel safe. I'm allowed to get MY needs met too...without being belittled or treated like a child.

"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson