Sage,
Such leaps were made this past week... my H continues to call, etc. My concern is that he is content to be where he is. Just a month ago he was telling me he was happy with OW and was still talking about D. He has not said anything different. Just our interactions have been incredibly pleasant. It would be amazing to me that he does not notice... that he does not think "this is doable." I know when we were shopping and talking I got a clear message in MY head "this IS doable, Michelle was right, it CAN be done."

The interactions were so NORMAL, so US... bantering back and forth, him showing me he cared about my opinion, him sitting next to me at dinner... I guess I WANT the whole enchilada NOW which has been my problem all along, a lack of true patience.

He continues to call, I continue to be upbeat, I try to act like everything is fine how it is...


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.