Ok GGG, let’s calm down a moment. Let’s talk about what you want here, and then the what’s the best way to go about getting it.
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I am not "obligated" to do anything more, nor even stay here. He can go it alone, as far as I care.
^^^I’m thinking this mindset is not likely to get you what you want.
Maybe try calmly explaining to H what you feel is fair for you to expect from him regarding caring for the “kids”. Ask him for what you want. Do this sooner rather than later. The longer you wait, the more he gets used to doing whatever he pleases, and the more PO’d you’ll become… causing you to eventually go off on him. Remember, timing is everything.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
