Thx, Wonka, I have to remind myself it ultimately feels good for ME. It's the person I want to be: light, fun, interesting, sweet.

The baking for him is working out great. It's something I used to do for him when we were dating. And I generally do it a lot in the summer with garden stuff so it's not too obviously a ploy. Also, I was able to slide in calling him a silly nickname I used to several years ago during a text exchange afterwards. It fit perfectly and I got a giant smiley back.

I'm workin it!

M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14