So...what's up? well, looks like you've had some really good times with h of late...congrats and kudos to YOU for your hard work and patience! And then...quiet from him, huh? Not too surprising, though, is it? It's SCARY for him to have good times with you, I'll bet. Don't you think?
After you guys have a good time together and he semi-retreats, what breaks the cycle? does he call? do you end up doing something together because of the kids? does he seem happy to reach out to you? sad? do you ever call him? Just wondering...not suggesting.
So..just info gathering...no real advice now other than keep on doing what you're doing because you seem to truly be living a la DB....building up your own life while interacting beautifully with your WAS.
Tell me what breaks the withdrawal and we'll go from there!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
