Originally Posted By: claire7
"The real truth"...

That's open to interpretation, no? Why is her perspective so invalid to you?


It's not at all. When she told me this last night I felt like a total turd. I don't know where I was at that point in my life. I really deep down did not want to leave her.

I was a real deek head. But that is still no excuse for an affair. She could have told me she was not happy etc.


W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21
33 years M 28
DD 3 Feb 11, 2014
S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14
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