New83

Read a little of your sitch, I am no vet ... but I do see one thing you do need to do. LRT ... above all detach. Maybe I am offbase, and I am not trying to be insensitive ... but right now you are the clingy needy H and she is not going to respond to that. Its not attractive ... Be you, a better you, GAL and get your confidence back .... I know it seems impossible .. but like in the DB book, you are in quicksand and the more you fight the faster this is all going to go badly. You have a gift here .. a positive, you have her in C atleast ... you might be able to remove some of the negative issues that were root causes for failure in your M .... and she is WAW and in a fog, hell bent on ending this thing and the more she feels you hanging on the more it justifies to her she has to get out.
Focus on you, and how you can be a better man regardless of the outcome, I am not a patient man so I can appreciate your position, your WAW is feeling trapped and if you really want her back, it has to be her idea not yours .... took me a long time to come to this and its even harder to accept.
I wish you all the luck in the world, hang in there .. you do have some small positives here .. focus on those.

Last edited by CaliGuy; 08/14/14 04:45 PM.

M: 48
W: 47
M16 T26-S8
BD Sept13