Ready for some forum help

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Reading DB again. Looking for nuggets of wisdom. I had therapy last night and know I need to be patient and let WAW accept some responsibility for this. I feel I have apologized for the few things that I felt bad about. Although there was only one of those she mentioned in C. We are now trying to build a friendship per our C. Working on not just the day to day family things and not keeping the contempt alive. "Just friendly conversation and complements. Not an attempt to reconcile. " C is trying to get WAW to open up and me to accept that this is over. WAW is now having some sleepless nights.
Again, like before she does weird things and says things that are opposite. It is very hard to not believe what you here.
I am working on aspects of the settlement to hopefully show here that I am doing okay and since she is still in C ( going on 3rd appt w/ not complaints) that I can move some in her wants too. I am okay. I will be okay. I am patient. My therapist says he cannot believe I have been able to maintain my focus and 180's without just throwing my hands up. WAW is chilling no empathy treating this as a business transaction. I feel she is doing this to kind of be emotionally withdrawn so that I don't get the wrong signals. This is why I think the C suggestion of being friends will work for us.
DB page 77
One thing WAW liked about our C is that he did not focus on the past. He jumped right into current sitch.
DB page 83
Our C, though we have always met C together said this exact thing last week about the times we got along and what we did together as friends.
Nuggets of hope for me.