Maybell, Im sorry to hear about your friend's loss. And I'm glad you were able to support her. I totally agree with you-- if he hadn't left me, i would not have made such great progress on myself... and I definitely would not have known how resilient I am. This is the worst thing that has ever happened to me. And it happens to at least half the people who get married. That says something about how great my life has been. Knowing we can survive...and thrive... pain is so empowering, isn't it?
Maybe a thank you note that is for you-- thanking yourself for having the courage and strength to get to where you are?