My W has previously suggested that we maintain our joint account for family-related expenses, but also open our own accounts for our personal spending.
I thought a lot about this and want to tell her that she is free to setup her own account. I am not going to. I will continue to deposit 100% of my income into our family account. I will watch my spending accordingly and I'll give her full transparency to all of my credit card accounts.
I consider this another step to earning back trust, but I don't want to appear confrontational either.
Any advice on this would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!