Made it into Austin, W picked me and S8 from the airport. Apparently the cold that she caught from me is on pretty strong. She was sick as a dog.
She was pretty nice to me, wasn't pulling back from contact. I smiled, was funny, was interested in what she was talking about.
She did drop the OM's name saying he hurt her rib when he hugged her, and told S8 that OM wasn't happy that her cat that she is keeping at his place has flea's.
One thing that was weird, is that in the past I would just flush with emotion when I heard his name, or saw her mentioning him. Now, I just heard it and continued with the conversation.
When I landed, I mentioned that I needed to find a room. She offered to have me sleep in the same house as her (on the air mattress in the room next to hers).
I thought about it for a bit, then told her that while I appreciated it, that I wanted to get a regular bed, and rented a hotel room down the road. (only accept some offers right .. sandi's rules).
One other thing, since I am just going to have a small room, W offered to let me use some closet space in her place. I am trying to keep a distance, but at what point is she trying to let me in, vs trying to keep me close and under control? How do I tell the difference? I have been doing the LRT a couple months now... could it be working?
I did do something sweet though, she was really really sick and didn't have any muscinex, so I went down to the drug store and got some for her. I'm not sure if that is supplicating, but that was something that I would normally do to take care of my W. I hope I didn't screw it up.
After I dropped that stuff off I went out with some friends and watched Indiana Jones in the park, and then hung out. Operation GAL in the new town in full effect.
Me: 35 Her: 33 D : 16 S : 9 Together: 14 years Married: 12 She left 4/14/2014 Separated: 5/25/2014 OM Confirmed 7/2014 She filed 8/7/2014 I Filed 10/21/2014 Divorce final 2/12/2015
