Long time no post. Been focusing on the steps and GAL. WAW and daughter are at a Christian Camp this week, and I have taken the week off to spend time with S6.
There were two significant conversations that I have had with WAW recently. The first one being this past Saturday. During a conversation, she posed the question? What would I do if she decides to begin dating? I really initially didn't know how to respond other than, is this your way of telling me that you are dating and you want my reaction? She said that she wasn't, that she just wants to know. Hard to really make much from that. Believe nothing said and half seen right?
So the next day, WAW came to house to pick up some stuff to take to camp. I asked if we could finish the conversation from previous night, and she was rushed so I said never mind. About 10 mins later she locked her keys in the car and called me, blaming me of all things, because she said since I made her rush out of my house. She was carrying a very negative and disrespectful tone towards me and it was in front of D8.
Immediately after helping her open the car, she called again complaining yet again about something and being critical of me in front of my daughter. I immediately hung up and sent her a text which said the following: Been a bit too nice and accommodating. She snapped at me today in front of the kids today for no good reason...this is what I texted her after pulling away...
I DO NOT DESERVE TO BE TALKED TO BY ANYONE THE WAY I WAS BEING SPOKEN TO RIGHT NOW AND ESPECIALLY IN FRONT OF OUR CHILD! I AM A GOOD PERSON AND I EXPECT TO BE TREATED WITH RESPECT AND NOT ATTACKED. EVERYTHING THAT GOES BAD IN YOUR LIFE IS NOT AUTOMATICALLY MY FAULT AND IT IS EXTREMELY UNFAIR TO ME THAT IS HOW I AM BEING AND CONSTANTLY BEING TREATED. YOU AREN'T ALWAYS THE VICTIM MEL, OTHER PEOPLE ARE IMPACTED BY YOUR WORDS TOO!
She immediately apologized via text and then I told her over text that if she begins a relationship or continues dating (if she has but hasn't owned up to it), then the guy can have her and I'll move on. That's my boundary. I realize that she may not consider us married right now, and I get that, but I also know I'm not doing to be anyone's back up plan, 2nd choice, etc.
