Quick to listen, Slow to speak

[holdingon]

Haven't heard from H today... no surprise there... was falling back into my routine of wondering what he was doing, was he going to call, yada, yada, yada...

SO:
1. I will stop whining to myself, stop complaining. As I have said before, IT IS WHAT IT IS.
2. I will continue to agree with what my H says.
3. I will act perfectly happy with everything the way it is. I will enjoy my space and my freedom. Trust, Pray, Rest.
4. I will live MY life.
5. I will not defend anything to my H, as this just gives him a weapon to use against me.
6. Small talk is ok. No R talk.
7. I do not NEED H. I will be okay regardless. I KNOW this.
8. I have grown into a heck of a person, and I will keep growing.