I'm not a vet although you received some fantastically wise words from Job and Wonka. My immediate thought is why are you surprised he's not showing up? And while I understand your disrespectful statement (I think that frequently), I think it's difficult to establish a boundary about him leaving you to do the chores when he isn't there? I know it's a great deal of work for you but in his mind, he has no *obligation* or *responsibility* to do those. Does that make sense?
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
