I never expected contact from my wife anytime soon after snapping and exposing her to her friends and family. (Something I'm not proud of despite the extreme provocation).
So the other day I receive a formal but pleasant text message from her in the run up to the final stage of divorce.
Along the lines of "Hello I hope you are well. I am wondering if you are putting through the final stage of divorce. Because if I do we will have to go court and I would like to spare us that"
I knew immediately that her friends/family were most likely telling her that I would be as difficult as possible during this. So I didn't take it personally.
I calmly stated that the process requires a 6 weeks and a day gap between the judge's approval and application of stage 3.
"Oh I know that I just wanted to be sure that you were going to do it" was her reply. And further wanting to avoid court for both of us.
I did have to laugh a little that it happened on the same day that she announces on Facebook that her and the OM have moved in together and and that she is looking forward to moving back to the US with him next year.
Truth is, she got a place and had him move in a year ago.
The lies will come crashing down one day. I'm not sure how they can trust each other, when they both lied and screwed over their respective partners.
Good luck to them.
Suspected EA: Feb 2013 Bomb drop: Mid March 2013 Separation: Mid April 2013 (I fought for marriage) Filed for Divorce: April 2014 Accidental Exposure of affair: June 2014