@Wounded

Yes I think I hinted/mention at R talk about a few weeks ago, sometime late June early July.

My plan is to NOT bring up M or R talk, unless I have decided I no longer want to "stand" bascially if I decide I'm ready to move on and have my H move out of our home and or if I'm ready to file D. If I need to discuss/review boundaries with H, this will bring up a R talk.

But, I do want to see where H is at as it relates to our M, but instead of talking about it, I will pay attention to signs and H behavior. I know men express themseleves in other ways then talk, and my H is not a talker at all!!
Last R talk that I brought up was 6/22 and it started out as a talk about needing to use protection during sex.

Last edited by 2BHappy; 08/14/14 11:34 AM.

Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW