As I mentioned earlier, my W did a day trip to NYC yesterday vs. staying over. The weather was horrible, so instead of leaving NYC at 8pm, she did not leave until 10pm. She got home a little after 1130pm. While she was waiting at the airport, we texted back and forth a few times, with her commenting that travel s**ks a few times.
This is showing me she is working to be more committed to our family. Does this mean we will get back together...who knows? I need to remind myself to continue what I am doing but not pursue her. I know I will have the tendency to do that, which could push her away.
Any advice out there from anyone, assuming we are "moving" toward repairing our R? Do I play the same game, GAL, etc? Do I pursue more?
Lots of love for everyone
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed