" I guess I should be happy that she's even torn over this move now so much."

No. You shouldn't be happy. I can see it's setting you up for a fall again.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER