Just an update. Things going very well with WAW. "WAW" still is nowhere to be found, she's still the wife I remember. I am still treading easy of course but reconciliation is definitely weighing on her mind regarding the FL trip. It was very strange to me that lady friend's Mom happened to have a serious medical issue the day of the show, almost like fate...two hours to the concert and I call WAW, who answers my text immediately before she even know what I wanted; and we end up going together and having a fantatsically awesome time. In know WAW is torn right now, she wasn't expecting us to rekindle our passion the past couple weeks. She said "if I knew then what I know now..wow" and "you totally shocked me, I never thought my feelings could come back. I really thought they were gone forever."
Of course this all sounds well and good...but I am of the mind set now of "show me!" Show me you mean what you say. For me that means her not moving to FL. I guess I should be happy that she's even torn over this move now so much...a month ago I was probably a no-issue for her in making that decision. Not any more. So I am just stepping back, playing it cool, and letting her figure it out. In the meantime WAW still thinks I am with my lady friend, I figured keeping the threat alive can only help my cause and we do still see each other regularly. I will keep you posted here but so far so good...no "WAW" to speak of yet...just the woman I remember as my wife.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
