Hi just catching up on your sitch. Stay strong. I am not veteran, but I strongly agree that you should not move out. Bad move legally, and DB-wise.
Me:42 W:41 M:12 T:3 D7, D7, S5 Sep#1 Winter 2012 for 4 months W divorce bomb 6/9/14 Started "in-house separation" 7/2014 W files for D 8/28/14 I move out 9/27/14