I really don't have much advice for you, but I agree that you should go for the interview and check out the taxes in the area to see if you could fit it into a budget. And you could always transfer your Kohl's job up there too!
I used to work for them and loved the benefits! Just don't spend all of the paycheck
As for the family, I would almost use some of the db techniques on them. I know that you really want the support from them, they are family and they are supposed to be there, but I would validate them and I think it was Wonka, said to tell them you are doing your best and that you are still working out your own issues and problems.
You are a very strong woman and give great advice to others. It's always harder to see it in your own life. You will make the right decisions that you and your girls will need.
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile
