And0324 I am not saying that this is what is happening but check this out... Do you think you might only be negative when you are around her and with her only? If you have resentments towards her that might be a reason.
Now for the next, she asked you to remove the ring...you became angry about it.... Why? Do you believe in wearing the ring? If you do, whatever she says its out of your business.... My ExW didnt liked that I wanted to talk about kids at all...I took that personal and thought it was my fault, was it? Nop , I wanted kids, and I wanted to have info about if we were gonna have them or not...it wasnt my problem that I talked about it, it was something going on with her that she didnt wanted to have the conversation at all... I mean if she is upset for something that you are doing that hurts her, bro you have to change that....if it hurts her that you eat food everyday....she is the one who has to deal with that, not you.
Analize what makes her nuts, and see what its your responsability and what is simple resentment towards you.... At the end of my relationship my ex will get upset because I didnt carried at least $100 cash on my wallet....I understand she was upset about it, but I had no idea that made her upset because she never told me that it mades her upset... I am not a mind reader... Take responsability for what you do, change it, and accept that somethings you cant change them.
This is not about the ring, she is already tired of the relationship and everything makes her upset so now its the perfect time for you to step absolutelly away from her and not pay attention to her 9 years old request, otherways she is gonna grow more and more resentment towards you.
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
