Possible MLC WAH, and need guidance

[Atsbaby]

You guys are right about me needing to wait...I'm ready to chop off certain pieces of anatomy!

H had d9 out with him tonight and I was home with s10, when I noticed his stuff sitting on the banister and I just glanced, not trying to snoop. I wonder if he left it to see if I'd find it, testing me.

So I got s settled with a shower and dinner, had to call H reminding him it was a school night to bring d home. Then I left to walk the dog before H got home. When I returned, h was on the phone, I dropped off the dog and left for me time, which I needed before I hauled off and hit H.

I returned from me time, tucked the kids in and h apologized for being late. I validated and told him I'd appreciate some help with the bedtime since they struggle in the mornings. Then I told him I was going to get in the shower and to have a good night.

I was listening for the garage door to close and never heard it, so I took my time getting into the bathroom. Surprise he came in with the excuse that he wanted to make sure he told me the correct time for football on Saturday. Then to tell me his business trip to Houston was delayed (stinks cause I was looking for this break).

H left the room and went outside, I thought he was leaving, but surprise he comes in while I'm in the shower! H begins telling me about his dad (who had to go to the hospital again today...whole different story!) and I validate feelings and try to comfort him. H continues to stay and talk even after I get out...I think he was looking for sex, nope not gonna happen!

It was so hard to talk with him. Again I'm so uncertain why he's trying to connect with me, guilt? Touch and go? Actually wants back with me?

I would like advice on how I should approach him regarding the note I found, or if I really should talk to him about it, maybe let him simmer in guilt?

I think I may need to find a way to get money for a db coach!

Going to watch a funny movie...gotta get a PMA