It is hard to not hate the WAS at times. I found early on that it was easier, short-term, but it made everything worse and didn't actually stop me from loving her. So I guess my advice is just: stay strong, be awesome.

Good luck.

Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.