'Over the past few days, I've been doing a lot of soul searching, praying and honest reflection on our marriage and specifically, these past 11 mos.
With that being said, I refuse to continue living in an open marriage. Should you decide you are unable to end all contact with OM and commit to building a new relationship with me, I will move forward with initiating a divorce. We will continue to have a civil relationship with respect to the kids and that will be all.
I'm asking that you end all contact immediately and begin to take the necessary steps with me towards building a new relationship.
Should you decide to work on our relationship, know that I am more than willing to put in the necessary work with you to establish a new, better marriage going forward.
I will look for your response by Monday morning on your decision...'
