1 step forward, 1000 steps back - part 4

[GoatGal]

Hi mdu,

I'm still following along and stealing the advice you're getting.

I don't know why I wasn't able to conceptualize that "talking to him about work" wasn't pursuit.

Seems like a no-brainer, but DOH!!!

H likes to tell me about work; it's a way he can connect with me about something he's comfortable talking about.

I specifically DO NOT fish, nor ask questions; stopped all that long ago.

If I ask, it's because I'm interested, and it also allows me to do a 180 by listening and offering support.

So--thanks guys!


---GGG