WAW not admitting to affair #3

[shodan]

no, i get it. My initial instinct is I want my M back and I know pushing for certain things could hinder our progress. But perhaps a year from now I want to talk with her about her phone, for example, and how it is odd that she keeps the code from me? Or that she has this separate credit card that goes to her work address (I assume this is the case since the statement does not come home). But our switch is way to raw to mention this now.