Starksy..great question to which I don't have an answer. Let's say that the M got to the point of being "perfect", or at least "amazing". Big if. Do i need an apology or just knowing that my M is back is enough? not sure right now. Need to digest that.
25MLC...i am trying to create a safe environment for her and am not going to mention the A. I don't need to be right, trust me. and perhaps she wants to take this to her grave so to speak. She knows I know so does admitting to it change anything if we get our M back on track. Again, I have no idea.
Another positive change from today...my W was not going to be able to make the whole trip, had to be in NYC M-W for work. She emailed me earlier to say that she is trying to move her meetings so she can stay the entire time. Again, another positive sign.
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed