Wow pilot, sounds like a lot of positives to me too. But I get what you are saying. My H also keeps repeating that our M is over and all I hear is over over over. And then I look around and see that other guys are interested and maybe I should just forget him and move along.
Maybe it is over but maybe there is still a chance for something new. Your story sounds like you two get along great and that she wants to spend time with you. Seems like good progress to me!
Keep on keeping on! Hugs, Lisa
At times it does seem great. But I also get the feeling she just wants to be friends. Wants the positives of a friendship with me, but not the marriage. It was only last week she said she wants to continue forward with the divorce saying "I think it would be best at this time". Granted she was already in a foul mood over money and the schools.
Who knows where she really is, or if she even knows. I just know every day of life is a gift. And sitting on the sidelines sometimes feels as if I am not taking full advantage of the gift given to me, and the gift I can give of myself to others.
There are other women who seem like they would be willing to put in a lot of "effort" into a relationship so why do I insist on waiting for one who has been nothing but clear she wants nothing to do with a relationship with me? Maybe she will come around in time, maybe not. Only she can figure that out. Only thing I can control is where I am at any point in time.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
