H told our D21 today that neither of us is in any hurry to change anything for the time being (house/finance wise). I would have to agree with that.
Abbey, what does your attorney say about this? Have you TALKED to a family law attorney about all of this?
You need to finally start protecting yourself here.
Starsky
I agree. I don't know why I am absolutely terrified to talk to an attorney. I know it is just a consultation and I'm sure H has probably done that already. One of my best friends just went through this so I'm planning to get the name of her attorney and set up an appointment this next week. I guess talking to an attorney has always seemed so FINAL. I know that is just my own stupid fear. But knowledge is power so am definitely planning to do this in the next couple of weeks. Today my first counseling appt. I don't know what to expect, but I'm grasping at straws for anything to help me feel better right now. Hope you are well. I have appreciated your advice over the years. Time to start moving forward.
Me - 49 H - 56 S - 23 D - 20 Married 25 years H moved out 10/11/13 H moved back in 10/13/13 H moved out again 8/1/14
