Originally Posted By: Zues126
25 years is a long time and the roots are deeper than he realizes.


Thank you Zues126 hope you are well! It is a long time, I literally met him my first day in town when I moved from NorCal 27 years ago. Friends that I have confided in commented to me that they had noticed that H has seemed a bit more negative, reflective, unhappy for a few years even with them. My D21 said that even when H has been up working in Norcal and she would meet him for dinner, he just seemed blah. No life. Worried for him but trying to take care of me. Hope you are having a good day!


Me - 49
H - 56
S - 23
D - 20
Married 25 years
H moved out 10/11/13
H moved back in 10/13/13
H moved out again 8/1/14