Abbey, I'm in SoCal, too. I'm sorry you're facing all this. I know nothing of your sitch but it seems Starsky remembers you.
I'm always confused by men who want things to change but aren't willing to do any change themselves. Well, that's part of my sitch, anyway and it seems your husband might be similar.
How are your kids taking all this?
Hi, my daughter was a great support for me that first week. I traveled up north to see her, she spent our 25th anniversary with me and my son spent it with H. Kids were not so shocked since he already attempted to leave in October. They are doing better than us for sure.
Me - 49 H - 56 S - 23 D - 20 Married 25 years H moved out 10/11/13 H moved back in 10/13/13 H moved out again 8/1/14