He finally replied to my text about a party for D4 I had to RSVP to and I said:
Me: hope ur having a good day H: It is ok. Made some changes that broke things. Have to leave to get the kids now. Me: Oh no. I'm sorry. I could have picked the kids up if you were in a real bind. H: I will work when I get home. Ty though. Me: Np, good luck!
So apparently he is having a work issue. I am totally going to give him space, although I wish there were some way I could support him more right now. He's probably majorly stressed because there's a ton of new stuff he's trying to figure out in his new role.
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14