He finally replied to my text about a party for D4 I had to RSVP to and I said:

Me: hope ur having a good day
H: It is ok. Made some changes that broke things. Have to leave to get the kids now.
Me: Oh no. I'm sorry. I could have picked the kids up if you were in a real bind.
H: I will work when I get home. Ty though.
Me: Np, good luck!

So apparently he is having a work issue. I am totally going to give him space, although I wish there were some way I could support him more right now. He's probably majorly stressed because there's a ton of new stuff he's trying to figure out in his new role.


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14