Starsky, good questions....on a scale of 1-10, she is close to an 8, maybe higher. She hates being told what to do. if she is refusing to admit to the A, I am not sure if it is because she does not want to give me the satisfaction of being "right" or more that she is just not ready to say anything. If the A were going underground, I would think she would have only done a few of these things, but not all of them. Also, MA is a no fault state, so whether she has an A or not does not matter in a D.
Here are the list of "positive changes" - said she does not want to move to NYC...said "NYC would be great for us but not sure about it for kids" - commented "who is the idiot who takes a job on a whim" - doing a day trip today when she easily could stay over - has invited me to go with her to yoga a few times this past week - has been proactively texting and emailing me the past few days - is talking about the future as a couple and as a family - has been more "affectionate", touching my arm, etc. No kissing or anything yet - looked into yoga classes for us to go to together when we are on vacation
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed