Thank you Sandi,
It will take me a while to digest this, but I think you are spot on with much of this (it's like you know me).

Sometimes it seems like I need to take a hard stance and push a little, but acting "as if" says a different thing.

I definitely keep my snide remarks in my head about the OM (I hope they don't even appear some day)

Thank you - reading this helps - I must not be the only one that feels this way


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015