Just want to document so more unusual behavior by H.

Typically when I text, call or email him he replies almost immediately. The last couple of days he has not. It's really unusual. Of course my mind is racing about OW because this is how he acted during the A. Having said that, I'm also wondering if something big is going on with work. There have been a lot of changes there recently. I'm curious to see how this shakes out and if my suspicions about OW are unfounded. If something is going down at work I'm really curious to see if he tells me. That would be huge if he did (in a positive way). I feel like I've been a good listener about work stuff these past few months -- although now with OW in the office it does feel a bit awkward to discuss work related things with him, it's like the constant elephant in the room.

Anyway, just wanted to document the latest. Of course I will not act on any of my suspicions. I'll just sit back and see what unfolds.

M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14