Not sure what to do

[MrBond]

Cnfused,

Sure I'll take a look at your posts.

For the record, for some people it takes awhile to understand their role in things. Everyone who comes here thinks it's their spouses' fault for leaving them, that they are the ones with the problem, etc.

But if you look at EVERY M counseling book/site, you'll see that they all say the same thing... look internally first. People don't want to do that because of pride and mostly FEAR. They are afraid of what they might see.

If you learn to swallow your pride and look at yourself and your actions honestly, you'll not only have a chance to save your M, but most importantly, become a stronger person in the end.