The "we" she is talking about is not you and W, it is her and OM.
She can't control you, You made to choice to expose so now you are living with it(not necessarily in a bad way).
She will blame you for everything so who cares if she is worried about OMW? are you?
Yup, her and the OM.
I am not worried about the OMW, but I have played out various scenarios in my head. My mind tends to go wild like that (with most things, not just this).
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
