WAH & MLC? - EA/PA - Please Help

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I think the first question - armed with the information you now have - is if you feel your H and your M are worth fighting for.

Only you can decide that.

What are your non-negotiable, core beliefs? What can you deal with in a M? What CAN'T you deal with?

Sit with this new information for a day or two. Post here. I don't think I would send an e-mail, and I most certainly wouldn't let H know what all you know.