Before doing anything at all really try to separate emotion from true feelings. If I ever find out my WAW, was involved with OM, I am not for sure how I would react. I have a feeling she is and my emotions are all over the place. I want to text and just ask, and other things. However, does it help the current situation, if I want the M to be better someday does it help? I haven't been apart from W as long as you, but it sure seems like it. So I can't answer what's right it wrong.
Take some time, think about what you really want. Get out and try(hard I know) to have some fun. Maybe there is a way to make it all work, maybe you can still continue to work. My heart goes out to you though, try and stay strong!!!
