advice needed - please help

[stacey9]

Hi, just looking for some advice. I am continuing to be friendly with h and he is nice back to me, but he is still with ow. I saw him yesterday in the store, I pretended not to see him, and I don't know if he saw me or not as when I looked up he was gone. I just kept imagining all the things he was putting in his basket to prepare a nice meal for her, then afterwards they will be cuddled up on sofa watching a movie together. Not nice.

I am still trying to be the opposite from what he expects - he defo would have been expecting me to bitch about the ow (she is NOT what I expected), but I haven't said a word. He expects me to be depressed and cold, which I was at the start of sep, I am now being nice and smiley when he's around. I am trying to show him the new me, but all I can think about is him with the ow.

He will try and initiate finance talks again, but I have been advised by my L not to agree to anything and to contact her to draw up an official agreement on how things are going to be paid. I believe this will cause major conflict. He is very money orientated and I don't think he can bear the thought of splitting his pension etc.

I'm trying hard not to lose hope but it's so difficult. Surely the affair bubble will burst soon? Its been going strong for 7 months+. They can't be happy ever after can they?

Please please advise if there is anything I should be doing.
Love S x