Hi Holding...I am sorry things are soing rough..the conversation you had with your was ok..I am no expert by any means..but when you said you have not "moved on" bugged me..you need to move on with life...I used to come here a year ago wanting to know how to not let him go..that I needed to talk to him..see him in order for him to not forget me..I did not want to "let go", and of course everyone told me to detach..well as I grew and came to realize that I was not going to change my h..make him love me again..I was alot of time waiting to see if he would call...hoping that maybe next week would be the week..well I finally gave it all to God..asked Him to help my h..to help him find what it was that would make him truly happy again..if it was not with me then I would be ok...if you have read my thread you know what the out come is.

Please move on with life.. but don't give up hope that your h can turn around at any time..don't give up on on your m..just don't let your life stand still.

Sue