Originally Posted By: nit84


Again with OMW worries, your W made a choice and must now live the consequences of that choice.



Except she blames me for the OMW worries. She has said, "We had her under control until you lit a fire under her".

It makes me wonder, is that the same thing she's doing to me? Keeping me under control? I suppose it only makes natural sense that she doesn't want me interfering in her A.

And this is another example of why one shouldn't try to mind read in situations like this.

"Is she being genuine, or is she trying to manipulate me?"

I could go nuts trying to micro-analyze her every move.


M: 15 years
BD: 6/25/14
EA/PA: starts 5/14/14
11/30/14 - A ends
5/15/15 - D is finalized.
11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!