'Although what you told me yesterday was somewhat suspected (so didn't come as a total surprise), it still was incredibly painful to hear and will be for as long as I can envision.
With that being said, I've been dead set on proceeding forward with a divorce since hearing it. However, I think you know that I've been going to church on a regular basis for the past year. Throughout this process, I've looked to God to provide me answers and signs on what I should be doing, how I should interact with you, etc. I know you've mentioned you've recently begun doing the same. I prayed yesterday and asked questions that I don't know the answer to, but I believe that I've received yet another sign that I shouldn't be proceeding with a divorce just yet.
Because of that, I'm asking you this question- Are you willing to end all contact with OM immediately and begin to take the necessary step to build a new relationship with me? If you are not, I'm fully prepared to go ahead with the divorce.
I don't know that either one of us will ever be able to overcome the incredible hurt we've put on each other and eventually we'd need to address that. I can't guarantee that I can ever get the thought of what you confirmed out of my head, but I believe I may be able to put that aside for now if you're 100% committed to working on us.
I know this may seem like I'm forcing a decision from you, but I think I'm being 'told' to offer this last chance....Think about it and please let me know either way by tomorrow afternoon.'
