As long as you're being true to your needs and your values and aren't using your actions as a guise or to send a message, how he takes it is how he takes it. That's his to deal with.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss