I still care about my W and if her OM ever hurt her I would have a problem with it of course but she isn't asking those type questions of me.
If she did my response, I think, would be something along the lines of "why are you asking is he hurting you now? If you have to ask that question why are you with OM? It is your choice to be with who you want so there are consequences to all choices, I hope all will be fine but I have no control over the choices you have made."
Again with OMW worries, your W made a choice and must now live the consequences of that choice.
I understand having some fears about threats but you have no control unless those threats start to be against YOU. Till then don't say anything to her about these fears.
just my 2 cents
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
